How to Resign Professionally: What to Say to Your Boss When Quitting Your Job
Thinking about leaving your job? Whether you're chasing a new opportunity or simply ready for a change, resigning professionally is essential to maintaining your reputation and relationships in the industry. In this blog, we’ll guide you through exactly what to say to your boss when resigning, how to write a resignation letter, and how to handle tricky situations like counteroffers and exit interviews.
Why Professionalism Matters When Quitting
No matter your reason for leaving - be it career progression, a toxic workplace, or a better salary - it’s crucial to leave on good terms. Burning bridges can damage your future job prospects, especially in industries where everyone knows everyone (yes, we’re looking at you, construction and engineering sectors!).
Step 1: Write a Professional Resignation Letter
You don’t need to write an essay - just keep it clear and polite. A well-written resignation letter should include:
- A clear statement of resignation
- Your final working day (respecting your notice period)
- A brief thank-you for the opportunity
- An offer to assist with the transition
💡 Tip: Keep a copy of your letter and submit it both in writing and via email for clarity.
Step 2: What to Say in a Resignation Meeting
The conversation can be nerve-wracking, but staying calm and professional is key. Here’s a script you can adapt:
“Thank you for taking the time to meet with me. I’ve made the decision to resign from my position, with my final day being [insert date]. I’ve really appreciated the opportunities and support here, and I’ll do everything I can to ensure a smooth handover.”
🛑 Avoid blaming, complaining, or discussing colleagues - it never ends well.
Step 3: Dealing with Counteroffers
If your employer offers more money or a promotion to get you to stay, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself:
- Am I leaving just because of salary?
- Will this change the parts of the job that made me want to leave?
- Do I genuinely want to stay longer term?
📊 Research shows over 70% of people who accept counteroffers end up leaving within a year anyway.
Step 4: Exit Interviews – Be Honest, Not Brutal
Most companies will ask you to take part in an exit interview. Use this as an opportunity to provide constructive feedback - but always keep it professional.
✅ Share what you enjoyed and what could be improved
❌ Don’t use it as a chance to vent frustrations
Final Thoughts
Leaving a job can be a daunting experience, but if you do it with respect, clarity and professionalism, you’ll protect your reputation and open the door to future opportunities. Whether you're moving up, moving on, or moving away - how you leave is just as important as how you started.